Nathan

About Me

How do I begin to explain to you the paradise and the hurricane that resides within me?

I have made my profile very thorough so that you do not waste your time and energy on me. The kind of woman I am looking for will get excited by what she is about to read here because this IS my heart, my life’s goals, many of the reasons I live today. I have lived a very colorful life to learn all of this about myself and now I want to take the very best version of me I have ever been and give it all to ONE woman, forever!

The simplest way I know how to describe myself is to say: "I'm all heart!" The level of love that resides within my heart is like a bottomless canyon that one could take a lifetime to explore and still not see it all. I experience and see all things in life through a lens of emotional love with immense depth and understanding.

I'm not interested in short flings or one night stands! I do not care for endless dating! I am looking for the woman of my heart, of my dreams so that I can totally commit to her and take care of her. I'm looking for my dreamlover! I'm romantic by nature! I'm the kind of guy that sings to that special woman he loves. I want to dance with her and hold her close. I want our very souls to mingle in the ecstasy of our love.

I can be a shy and reserved guy when I first meet people but once I know I can trust you I will open up the ample vaults of my heart. I tend to be cautious and calculated when learning a new person because I want to deeply understand and know this person, inside and out. I want to learn if you are a real woman seeking love or a con artist seeking to harm. I am extremely loyal, faithful, committed, and dedicated once I have decided she is the one. Which is why I am patient to begin because I am constantly assessing if you are the one. I am this same way with my friends. I need to deeply know that I can trust you before committing my whole heart of friendship and loyalty to you.

Very few people see the full force of my immense love because only 1 woman is allowed that deep into my heart but once she is there the full force of my romantic side comes out. I will do everything and anything within my means to declare my love to her so she knows without a doubt she fills my whole heart. I try in small ways and big ways to show her that in my heart, in my eyes, in my very breathe she means so much to me that spending time with her stops my beating heart and brings time itself to a complete stop. This is the spotlight of my heart that I am trying to fill with one special woman.

I like to give small gifts: items or words of thoughtfulness to show her I am thinking of her and that she is very important to me. I do my best to make her wishes come true because that is what you do for one who has your whole heart. I do my best to pay close attention to her needs so that I can fulfill them whenever possible.

I fully devote myself to my love!

I'm not a fan of filthy dirty talk but I do enjoy thoughtful flirting and teasing. I'm a patient man that does his best to study and understand my love so that I can fulfill her every desire. I am confident and very capable spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically both inside the bedroom and outside. I'm a passionate lover that is absolutely against infidelity (unfaithfulness) on any level.

I strongly believe in respecting and honoring a woman's boundaries; her likes and dislikes. I tend to be VERY encouraging, supportive and loving with my words and actions to provide her with ample spiritual, mental, emotional and physical support and encouragement.

I'm a very sensitive man that absolutely requires her to highly value my heart in how she speaks to me and how she treats me. If you fail to handle my heart with tenderness, kindness and encouragement then I am likely to be deeply hurt or I will not be properly supported in the ways that I need to function day to day in this life with you. I am not a pushover and will not be walked on like a carpet. I will require your time, and attention to stay healthy in our relationship day to day.

I don't fall in love easy because I have to know the woman I am handing my heart to knows how to properly care for it. It takes time to build my trust and commitment to you but once you have it, I'm all yours! Christina Aguilera wrote a song called: “Genie in a bottle”, youtube it! I am very much a Genie in a Bottle and I will only come out for a woman that is willing to show me that she is serious about me and my heart. That she is mature enough, loving enough, devoted enough to be trusted with my most prized possession: my heart!

What is more important than all of what you have read so far is that my heart first and foremost belongs to Jesus Christ! He is my Lord, my Savior, my King, my Everything! You absolutely must also have an equally powerful relationship with him because if you become my dreamlover than the 3 of us will be 1 in Holy Matrimony! Not a single person in the world will come before you, but Jesus will always come first before you because it is because of him living in me that I am all that I am today. On the day that I accepted him as my Lord & Savior I gave him my whole heart so the only way you too will get my heart is if you can run with Jesus and I, hand in hand throughout the rest of life! For 3 strands are not quickly broken!

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (ESV)
9 Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. 10 For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!11 Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? 12 And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Though to some I may come off overconfident or arrogant, in truth I am modest and humble in my heart. I share this with you so you understand I can state truths about myself and not have them elevate my heart into a place of haughtiness.

Other things that make me who I am: I am kind, compassionate, understanding, faithful, hard working, fun, easy going, brave, courageous, gentle, empathetic, analytical, deliberate, nurturing, dependable, I seek quality, sincere, well-mannered and full of faith, hope and most importantly love.

I enjoy music, personal fitness (jogging, biking, walking, yoga, weight training, etc), some types of dancing, studying the word of God, encouraging others, traveling (primarily state side), dining out, I enjoy people and social events sometimes but I can’t do them all the time because it burns me out. I need down time to decompress and rest to gather my thoughts and energy. I enjoy photography, reading, quiet nights at home to a home cooked meal and a movie, I greatly enjoy intimacy both physically, verbally and emotionally with my love, I love children and want to have some in the future with her. I’m an intelligent man and I am very handy in several areas.

Lastly, I recently changed my work schedule to part time and my college class load to full time so that I can finish my BA and then prayfully move onto my masters degree next. I do currently have an associates degree and a few certifications and I have many skill sets in various fields that have helped me to do many things. She will need to be understanding, supportive and encouraging of these goals. As I would your goals.

God Bless ladies and I do pray you find what you are looking for! :)
Nathan
“A Student of Jesus Christ”

About My Match

I want to meet my dreamlover and I will do my best to describe her to you.

She loves Jesus Christ with all her heart. She will be kind, tender and, encouraging with physical affection and words of affirmation and reassurance. I need her to be fully devoted to me. She must respect herself and care for herself. She will understand and relate with the kind of Love I have shared above because she deeply longs for the same kind of love-relationship. She has strong family values and morals and wants a family of her own one day. She wants me to be the head of the family and her equal under Christ. She is extremely faithful, loyal, committed, dedicated. She is nurturing, and gentle!

Her and I have similar likes and dislikes. She is fun, thoughtful, driven by her love of God, family and home. The bottom line is I want a woman that loves like I do because that is the kind of woman I can trust with my heart, I can trust with my life, and trust to manage our home and conceive and raise children together.

Once I give you my heart, there is no going back. I am yours forever! You must be the same way!


1) Christ in her and continuously seeking to grow in Christ (growing in love for God is love).
2) Chemistry (Physical attraction)
3) Connection through character, personality and humor
4) Faith (Goals) in life that aligns!

I will update this as things come to me...