我眼中的自己

I'm an observer at first. So I don't usually talk to much unless I feel comfortable enough. Usually I enjoy listening at first. Then once I'm around that person enough I'll start to open up and talk. I'm very loyal and trustworthy. I can be stubborn as a mule sometimes, but if I am it usually means whatever it is very important or involves someone I care about making it very important. Or I'm just hangry or tired..one of those. Lol.

I do struggle with self esteem at times. I grew up in a very divided home and I've had a fair set of challenges but I think that's just life. Ups and downs. I'm a very caring person, an empath. I can sense most emotions pretty quickly. For the most part I'm a chill dude. If you're chill we're going to be just fine..and I do like hugs..

我理想的对象

Someone first and foremost is loyal and wants to start a family at some point. Someone who likes hugs and is okay with deep conversations about anything and everything, someone who will let me provide for them.

I don't need a perfect person. I want someone who expects these things out of myself as well. I want someone who finds trust in me. Someone who can talk to me when they need to. Someone who knows that if she's having a bad day she can always come to me to be held and loved and listened too. I also look for more of the traditional woman, but I understand in this economy, that can be pretty tedious to find. Above all, someone to share life with and the multitudes of ups and downs.