我眼中的自己

I'm an educated, curious person who enjoys talking about everything from politics to science. I play the guitar and sing original songs. I love being in love with a woman who loves me in return and who is faithful. I will be absolutely faithful to her. I like to hike, bike, swim, and travel internationally. I'm curious about culture and why people do what they do since I'm a retired child and family psychologist turned fiction writer. I love kids and wish I had the chance to raise a couple - so if you have children, I will be very good to them. I enjoy doing art and playing with them.

My Chinese, Russian, and Spanish are very rudimentary because I have no one to practice with and it seems learning anything not strongly related to English is very difficult for me.

我理想的对象

She has solid family values, is loyal, trusting, and faithful. She is strong enough to call me on my BS and help me grow as a human being. She can accept feedback, and she likes to resolve problems by communicating rather than by going silent and then pretending nothing happened. My wife is in decent physical shape, she eats healthy, and enjoys preparing meals with her husband. She is kind and affectionate and enjoys sex but only with her man because she is honest and loyal. She likes to travel, she enjoys singing, and if she plays an instrument that is a joy. She encourages me in my fiction writing and helps me market the stories and novels.
I was badly scammed by a lady from this website because I'm honest and think others are also, and I fall in love too easily. Please do not ask for money because that is demeaning to you and uncomfortable for any man.

I will fly to her location first and if we are compatible, we will return to my home together if possible (you know how the border patrol is these days).

Maybe she likes hiking in the mountains, swimming in the oceans and rivers, and all that. Most of all, she knows how to laugh and have fun because life is too short to be depressed and stressed.