我眼中的自己

I’m 42, family-focused, career-driven, and pretty traditional when it comes to commitments and relationships. I’m here looking for someone who genuinely wants to build a life, not just pass the time.

I don’t have time for cheating, games, hookup culture, heavy drinking, or drugs. I value loyalty, affection, honesty, hard work, and two people actually contributing to the life they’re building together.

I’m raising some pretty amazing kids on my own (no ex- drama), and being a dad is the best part of my life. I intend to have more children with the right woman.

I’ve worked hard and highly educated to create a stable life and can provide well for my family, but I’d rather make memories than collect things. Last year, we somehow managed to spend 41 days at Disney World, which probably tells you everything you need to know about how seriously I take family adventures.

I’m looking for a woman who wants a committed relationship, loves kids, has a warm heart and a good sense of humor, and still believes a strong family is something worth building.

If your idea of a good future includes love, loyalty, kids, travel, laughter, and growing old with the same person, we’ll probably have a lot to talk about.

我理想的对象

I want the dream real-life Disney princess. There are billions of beautiful women in the world, I am looking for one who’s beautiful in all the ways that matter. Someone who lives fully, works hard, loves deeply, cares about people, laughs as hard as I do, has a great head on her shoulders, love in her heart, and a bit of a crazy streak with plenty of... let’s just say affection left over for me.

I want someone excited about life to continue building something together. Marriage, adventure, a ridiculous amount of laughter, and maybe 2–3 more kids. Someone who contributes, has her own drive and identity, and still wants to be standing beside me 20 years from now.

The real question is: could you handle kids, a career, me, and one hell of a life?