我眼中的自己

I’m a man who knows exactly what I want and what I won’t put up with. If you’re just here to play games, ask me to jump off this platform right away, or push me to WhatsApp/email before we’ve even talked—you can stop reading now. I won’t fall for it. If you ask me to move off this site too soon, I’ll block you. Simple as that.

Now, if you’re still here, that means you’re probably someone who actually wants something real. That’s what I’m after: a true partnership where there’s mutual respect, attraction, loyalty, and consistent communication. I believe in building together, showing up for each other, and making family a priority.

A few things about me and what I’m looking for:

I’m a single father of four amazing kids, and I have full custody of them. They are my world, and I take that responsibility seriously.

I’ve been separated for over a year, and my divorce is in progress. The marriage is over and I’m moving forward with my life. I share this up front so there are no surprises.

I’m highly attracted to dark hair—black, dark brown, brunette shades—but I don’t rule anyone out. If there’s a spark, I’ll know.

Drinking and smoking are dealbreakers. I don’t want someone who smokes, and I don’t want someone who drinks. That’s non-negotiable.

Taking care of myself matters. I’ve been focused on eating healthy, running, and getting in shape—and I’d love a partner who values her health too. I want to look good for my partner, and I want her to feel the same for me.

I’m drawn to someone who values commitment and reciprocity.

I appreciate a woman who responds in a timely way (because attention and presence matter to me).

I’m not interested in partiers or drama.

I admire strength, but I want interdependence—not two people living totally separate lives.

Physical attraction matters to me. I believe it’s an important part of a lasting relationship, and I’m looking for someone I’m genuinely drawn to—beauty paired with inner warmth.

If you’re real, honest, and truly interested in building something solid, I’d love to hear from you. If you’re here to manipulate, waste time, or run scams—please do us both a favor and move on.

At the end of the day, I’m a dedicated dad and a loyal man who wants to share life with someone who believes in love, family, commitment, and taking care of each other. If that’s you, I’d be glad to get to know you.

我理想的对象

I’d like to meet a woman who is genuine, loyal, and family-minded. Someone who takes care of herself, values her health, and wants to look and feel good for her partner—just as I do for mine. She should be kind, responsive, and consistent in communication, because presence and attention matter to me.

I’m looking for someone who is strong and capable, but who also believes in true partnership—building a life together, supporting each other, and sharing both the joys and responsibilities of family. She doesn’t smoke, she doesn’t drink, and she’s not into constant partying or drama.

Most of all, I want to meet a woman who is real—someone who wants honesty, commitment, and love, and who is ready to give as much as she receives.