我眼中的自己

🎶 Music is my compass.
It helps me relax, focus, and grow. I play piano and sing — probably more than I should. But when you’re in my life, I promise you’ll get almost as much attention as my piano... almost. If you play or sing, even better. Let’s make music together — literally or metaphorically.

🌍 Let's go on adventures — the everyday and the epic.
We could start with a museum or garden, then move on to cruises, camping, , safaris, or even temple treasure hunts. (I'm only half joking.) But honestly, the real treasure I hope to find is you.

🧠 My main passion is growth — mental, emotional, spiritual.
I read widely, think deeply, and love conversations that stretch the mind. If you’re on a lifelong learning journey, we’ll get along beautifully.

🌱 I care about kindness — to people, animals, and the planet.
Bonus points if you're vegetarian or vegan — or open to it. I care deeply about animals and would love a partner who shares (or is open to) this compassion.

💬 What I value most:
Feeling loved. Feeling emotionally safe.
You don’t have to be perfect — just warm, genuine, and ready to build something honest. Bonus points if you're the affectionate type who gives as freely as she receives. That said, I also I value personal space as essential to keeping a relationship healthy and strong. I have strong independent tendencies. If you appreciate balance and independence as much as I do, we’ll get along great.

👨‍👧 I’ve raised two wonderful daughters who are now thriving adults. Being a father has brought me joy beyond words — and I’m open to experiencing that again. I’d see any future child as a blessing.

💼 By day, I lead a brilliant team of analysts and engineers.
It’s nerdy and intense — and I love it. Life’s been good to me, and I’m in a stable, secure place. But now? I’m looking for something deeper.

🕊️ Spiritually open.
I vibe with open-hearted seekers — Buddhists, agnostics, progressive Christians, or anyone on a path of personal growth. I value science and intuition, logic and soul. I also appreciate the importance of space and independence in a relationship — it helps love breathe and flourish.

我理想的对象

I am attracted to intelligent, educated ladies who are good at expressing themselves. As I am not that tall 171 cm, I prefer that the lady be from 160 to 163 cm. I prefer slender women. If she is from Europe or Slavic countries that would be a plus too, but I am willing to consider other races for an exceptional woman. If you play a musical instrument or sing, perhaps we can enjoy working on songs together. I would do best with someone who can be loving and make me feel securely accepted.

If you are vegetarian or vegan and spend time meditating every day, I probably like you already even if you don't meet all my listed requirements.