Ellina

About Me

I have to take a good care of my safety. I'm aware of how many human traffickers are on dating sites,who would use just whatever to get a woman.Sad to take such measures but: Please be assured that first times(yes,few) we will meet in either Russia,Tokyo or other place I know very well,and we will NEVER leave the publick area,no cars,no private places,and the right people will know where I am and with whom(detailed info will be checked).Neither I would accept any gifts or money form you at that point.Even if you are famous and the info about you is all over internet what does it change? Same rules applie,sorry.Don't meen to insult anyone. If you are a reasonable guy with the world experience you must understand.
Since my 25 I realized 7 month of cold(-40to-10) winter is just not for me. I'm more active person.So I fond a job in Japan as a travel agent and moved there for 7 years,living in the most international central Tokyo district,meetiong people from all over the world every day,meting friends having relationships,new experiences,travelling all over Japan,partying,movies,having good and a bit difficult times-normal active life,like I saw it appropriate for the young age+practicing English and Japanese(my education),learning new cultures.
Than moved to Germany,Finland for a while travelling all over Europe.Now back to Russia and at my 34 feel like settling down(natural),dream to have a happy family,knowing what building a relationship is,ready for marriage.But guss what,still Cold outside,Ilook out the window:noone there,nature,park, beach,open terrace café-my favorite activities are obviously not an option so let me think..-night club? inside café? bar?-But I'm not into this 3:I find it boring on a regular basis and unhealthy.. So Where am I supposed to meet the guy than?...-Internet.. Let me see if there is the guy I like is in somewhat similar situation wishes and dreams,and who knows may be we are lucky!

About My Match

I have to take a good care of my safety. I'm aware of how many human traffickers are on dating sites,who would use just whatever to get a woman.Sad to take such measures but: Please be assured that first times(yes,few) we will meet in either Russia,Tokyo or other place I know very well,and we will NEVER leave the publick area,no cars,no private places,and the right people will know where I am and with whom(detailed info will be checked).Neither I would accept any gifts or money form you at that point.Even if you are famous and the info about you is all over internet what does it change? Same rules applie,sorry.Don't meen to insult anyone. If you are a reasonable guy with the world experience you must understand.
YOu like nature,hiking, beach,picknick,healthy active life,animals,harmony, balanced life of activity and leisure. beach house,travel,family, friends. you are no longer or not into: night clubs show off, glamourous fashion victim,noisy bars getting drunk Ibiza life style, Black Swan parties,so on. Really, I'm not into superficial stuff. within the age group I mentioned,YOu like nature,animals, outdoor sports, beach,healthy lifestyle,balanced life:activity-lesure,have your own opinion on things,mature enough for serious relationships.

For an experiment I took a couple of tests like:"my type of a man",so here are some results and my thoughts on it)
1.test:"Total Romantic
The guy that suits you is a total romantic! He knows what you like and he gives you what you want. He is very sensitive, but not in a bad way. He is the sweetest guy you'll ever meet. He enjoys helping others and giving back to the community."
-experienced that one,all great until it came to the masculinity issue:deciseveness,strenght(character),bravity,will power,ability to say no,brave enough to admit own mistakes and take actions to improve,as well as the understanding that love boat takes 2 to lead,it's not Titanic where a woman leads and the man thinks he bought a ticket and enjoys being a passanger.
2.test:this one seems to me a bit more precesed):
"For 50 % you are: You like the athletic guys! Jocks, as they may be called, they play sports and have the body to prove it. They may be focused on their sports, but usually can make time for romance with their favourite girl.
You could also get this result:
For 20 % you are: You like the laid-back, tech guys ( take woodworking, manufacturing, automotive class) Now, they may not all be tech guys, but basically they just like to hang out and enjoy life with their friends - and their girlfriend, if they have one.
Or even this one:
Or even this one:
For 10 % you are: You like the artistic, quiet guys. Often musicians and artists, you like the guys with sensitivity and creativity. They're often loners, and don't talk much until you get to know them.
Or even this one:
For 0 % you are: You like the academics. Overachievers in school, these guys are intelligent and may edge on geeky. But, when they aren't busy studying they will make time to adore you! Often enough, these guys are too shy to show they care, so try and be friendly towards them and something might happen"-)))-this zero percent exactly describes my ex(model looking German computer science PhD student),so may be that's why is 0 precent of what I want now))))). Though very smart and great in so many ways seems to be the issues. So, may be enough academics,unless you are brave and decisive and the same time, able to protect your woman if she is harassed by a drunk man on the street for example,not just standing watching her doing it herself.