Brian
From Montpelier, Vermont, United States
49 y.o. man seeking woman 32-45
- Height: 5'9" / 175 cm
- Weight: 174 lbs / 79 kg
- Body type: About average
- Hair: Dark brown, Medium length
- Eyes: Blue
- Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
- Zodiac sign: Virgo
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Last update: February 15, 2026
Member since: January 27, 2019
Username: brchick
Member ID: 802094
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Active within 24 hours
Last update: February 15, 2026
Member since: January 27, 2019
Username: brchick
Member ID: 802094
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About Me
My therapist called me a "bargain basement Dave Grohl;" but I think of myself more as the human equivalent of a "rescue:" damaged, but full of love and loyalty for the woman who will treat me right. I grew up in a cold society in cold New England, my life has been a struggle with depression, neglect, anxiety, alcoholism and most recently, Lyme Disease.
All that said, I surprise myself with my resilience: I wake up every morning and apply myself to my physical, mental and spiritual health, as well as my work, my small part towards making the world a better place than I found it. I have learned to appreciate my strength in the face of all obstacles, to have compassion for myself and all those who are struggling in this crazy world.
I work as a CPA/accountant, currently part of the year in the USA, part in Mexico, but have options for working remotely from anywhere year-round. I could not support a family in the USA on just my income, but there are many places in the world where that would be possible. However, when I say family - I am not looking to have my own children at this point in my life: but I would do my best to help raise any children my future partner may have.
About My Match
Above all, I am looking for someone who is a unique and interesting person in her own way. Doesn't matter if she is more intelligent or accomplished than I am - as long as she is someone who thinks of relationships as a collaboration, not a competition. Compassion and patience are required.
A lot scams out there. Please stay safe out there, and feel free to ask me if something about my profile seems suspicious: I am a real person out there trying to find the partner I am can grow old with. I hope you are, too.
About Myself
- English (native), Spanish (intermediate)
- Master's Degree
- Financial/Accounting/Insurance/Real Estate
- Buddhist
- Single
- I have no kids
- No
- Non-Smoker
- Never
Personality and Interests
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Gentle, Humorous/Witty, Intellectual/Smart, Practical, Quiet/Shy, Romantic, Sensitive/Nurturing/Loving, Serious/Responsible, Spiritual
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Dancing, Hiking/Walking, Yoga/Meditation
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Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Meetings/Friends, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing
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Indian, Japanese/Sushi, Mediterranean, Mexican, Middle Eastern, Seafood, South American, Spanish, Thai, Vegetarian/Organic
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Alternative, Classic Rock n' Roll, Classical, Folk, Latin, Punk, Reggae, Rock, Soul/R&B
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Classics, Fiction, Non-Fiction, Novels