Ian
From Dekalb, Illinois, United States
39 y.o. man seeking woman 18-36
- Height: 5'10" / 178 cm
- Weight: 218 lbs / 99 kg
- Body type: Stocky
- Hair: Salt and pepper, Short length
- Eyes: Green Brown
- Ethnicity: Asian
- Zodiac sign: Aries
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Last update: October 29, 2025
Member since: October 29, 2025
Username: HybridNisei
Member ID: 1379940
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Active within 24 hours
Last update: October 29, 2025
Member since: October 29, 2025
Username: HybridNisei
Member ID: 1379940
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About Me
Nature and nurture has made my personality a mirror of my experience. I’ve more vision on how the world could be, and should be, equitable with hard work, and a little special with some creativity. I’ve the dark humor a sailor, adventure, a cynic, but the goofy dad humor that wants to enrich the lives I meet, and float all boats. Easier to build a longer table, than a higher wall. I’d like to do both for family. And ensure a legacy that does not just echo, but gains in volume. To build a business empire with my creativity, solving problems not acknowledged, and have the support from a Queen on the chessboard of life. I now know to learn from others’ pasts, while being open about mine. I can learn from mine, and prepare for the path I want to forge. The family identity I have of who I am. Mixed background of American, German, Japanese, Scotch-Irish, born in a rural part of the United States. Not easy then. Easier now though.
About My Match
I would like to meet a woman that knows how to love a man and make a safe, peaceful, home. A woman that is calming, cheerful to my kids, nurturing. Who is an affectionate lover, a dream to come home to, not a bitter nightmare. I would like her to also still be a girlfriend, willing to learn, that I would want to invite to everything, proud, and like of mind. I want to learn from her, like she is a just a fun interesting friend, whom I can spoil with gifts when I can, and myself by just listening to her, answering her questions, and deepening our understandings of one another’s passions. I want to light her up with my attention, and bring light to my eyes when she shares her interests like a proud child showing art to their parent. I’m hoping she’s open about everything, answering concisely, but spilling details so I can put together a picture of her in my mind, so if I surprise her with little gestures, she knows I listening. And that she learns my love languages and how I speak them. If she has a psychiatrist background great. Martial arts, wonderful. Engineering hobbies, amazing. I want to build a legacy home to grow old in, and remain there. To build a family business that can brag 1,500 years later they’ve passed it on, generation after generation. A safe start for loyal family and friends, to pursue their passions, and always be able to return home. A woman than can model these attitudes of motherly nurturing, affectionate lover, and best friend to many, so my kids can have a positive example. So my son sees how a man should be loved to be successful, happy, and for my daughters, how to keep a man, and how a woman should treat kids.
About Myself
- English (native)
- Bachelor's Degree
- Manufacturing/Warehousing/Shipping/Facilities
- Separated
- Live with me
- No
- Non-Smoker
- On occasion
Personality and Interests
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Artistic, Easygoing/Flexible/Open-Minded, Eccentric, Flirtatious/Playful, Friendly/Kind, Humorous/Witty, Intellectual/Smart, Practical, Procrastinator, Quiet/Shy, Romantic, Romantic, Sensitive/Nurturing/Loving, Sociable, Sophisticated/Worldly, Spiritual, Unconventional/Free-Spirited
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Biking, Bowling, Dancing, Golf, Hiking/Walking, Hunting/Fishing, Jet/Water Skiing, Jogging/Running, Martial Arts, Rock Climbing, Snorkeling/Scuba Diving, Surfing/Snowboarding/Skateboarding, Swimming/Diving, Weightlifting, Yoga/Meditation
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Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Meetings/Friends, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, New to the area, Playing cards, Political interests, Theater, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Wine tasting
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American, Barbecue, Cajun/Southern, California-Fusion, Caribbean/Cuban, Chinese/Dim Sum, Deli, Eastern-European, Fast Food/Pizza, French, German, Greek, Indian, Italian, Japanese/Sushi, Jewish/Kosher, Korean, Mediterranean, Mexican, Middle Eastern, Russian, Seafood, Soul Food, South American, Thai
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Acoustic, Alternative, Big Band/Swing, Blues, Classic Rock n' Roll, Classical, Folk, Jazz, Modern Rock n' Roll, Oldies, Opera, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul/R&B, Soundtracks, World Music/Ethnic
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Classics, Comics, Detectives, Fiction, Magazines, Newspapers, Novels, Poetry, Trade Journals