John
From Tampa, Florida, United States
40 y.o. man seeking woman 27-45
- Height: 5'5" / 166 cm
- Weight: 141 lbs / 64 kg
- Body type: About average
- Hair: Black, Short length
- Eyes: Brown
- Ethnicity: Black / African descent
- Zodiac sign: Sagittarius
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Last update: April 12, 2026
Member since: April 12, 2026
Username: jharrell112585
Member ID: 1396092
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Active within 24 hours
Last update: April 12, 2026
Member since: April 12, 2026
Username: jharrell112585
Member ID: 1396092
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About Me
I’d describe myself as grounded, intentional, and loyal to the core. I’m someone who believes actions matter more than words—if I show up for you, it’s real. I’ve lived enough life to know what matters and what doesn’t, so I don’t waste time on games or поверхностные connections.
I’m disciplined and consistent in how I live. I stay active, take care of myself, and handle my responsibilities without needing to be pushed. At the same time, I value peace. I’m not into chaos, drama, or anything that feels forced. I’d rather build something natural, steady, and meaningful.
Family is a big part of who I am—especially being a father. That role shaped me into someone more patient, more aware, and more focused on what actually counts long-term. The people I care about get my time, my effort, and my respect.
Personality-wise, I’m calm but not boring, confident but not arrogant. I enjoy good conversation, real connection, and moments that feel genuine—whether that’s staying active, being outdoors, or just relaxing and enjoying someone’s company without distractions.
If I had to sum it up: I’m someone who values consistency, respect, and real connection over everything else.
About My Match
I’m looking for a woman who is genuine, grounded, and knows who she is. Someone who doesn’t play games or hide behind mixed signals—what she says and what she does actually line up. Consistency matters to me, and I value someone who shows up with real intention.
She’s kind, but not naive. Strong, but still soft where it counts. She respects herself, takes care of her life, and understands that a healthy relationship is built, not rushed. Communication is important—being able to talk things through calmly, especially when things aren’t perfect.
I’m drawn to someone who values connection over attention. A woman who enjoys spending quality time, whether that’s doing something active, being outdoors, or just having a good conversation without distractions. She doesn’t need constant chaos or validation to feel fulfilled.
Most importantly, she understands priorities. She respects that I’m a father and sees that as a strength, not a complication. She values loyalty, effort, and presence—because that’s exactly what she’ll get from me.
At the end of the day, I’m looking for something real. Something steady, mutual, and built on respect, trust, and genuine connection—not just temporary chemistry.
About Myself
- English (native), Arabic (intermediate), German (intermediate), Spanish (basic)
- Some College
- Christian
- Divorced
- Don't live with me
- Yes
- Occasional Smoker
- Socially
Personality and Interests
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Calm, Easygoing/Flexible/Open-Minded, Friendly/Kind, Persistent, Quiet/Shy, Self Confident, Sensitive/Nurturing/Loving, Serious/Responsible, Simple, Unconventional/Free-Spirited
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Basketball, Biking, Bowling, Football - American, Golf, Hiking/Walking, Hunting/Fishing, Inline Skating/Roller Skating, Jet/Water Skiing, Jogging/Running, Martial Arts, Skydiving/Hang Gliding/Flying, Soccer (Football), Surfing/Snowboarding/Skateboarding, Tennis, Volleyball, Yoga/Meditation
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Alumni connections, Business networking, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Hobbies and crafts, Meetings/Friends, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, New to the area, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Watching sports, Wine tasting
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American, Barbecue, Cajun/Southern, Caribbean/Cuban, Chinese/Dim Sum, Deli, Eastern-European, French, German, Italian, Japanese/Sushi, Mediterranean, Mexican, Middle Eastern, Seafood, Soul Food, South American, Spanish, Thai
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Blues, Christian & Gospel, Latin, Oldies, Pop, Rap/Hip Hop, Reggae, Soul/R&B
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Detectives, Fiction, Non-Fiction, Novels