From Fort Worth, Texas, United States
46 y.o. man seeking woman 18-35
- Height: 5'5" / 165 cm
- Weight: 161 lbs / 73 kg
- Body type: Athletic and toned
- Hair: Light brown, Short length
- Eyes: Brown
- Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
- Zodiac sign: Capricorn
Active within 24 hours
Last update: September 22, 2020
Member since: April 30, 2017
Member ID: 555248
Active within 24 hours
Last update: September 22, 2020
Member since: April 30, 2017
Member ID: 555248
NOTE TO FRIVOLOUS UNPOPULAR FRAUDULENT SCAMMERS.
I'm not here to buy you a phone, a computer or send you money. That is not the reason I came here. So, please if your intention goes in that direction. Leave!! Go away!! You are not wanted.
On the other hand, I really want to talk to serious grown up ladies only!
Women that want to create something extraordinary! Something to feel good and proud as we go & in older age.
A lifetime union!
Please, don't assume things, ask me. Establish a conversation with me. It's the best way.
I don't smoke. Its a very occasional cigar I used to have.
I want to discuss openly how we can align our lifes & ideas. Find out how compatible we are. Our values, our love, our principles. The important things.
My thinking is that we are not a mathematical equation that is going to align with all the numbers. Age, hight, personality, your likes, my likes, your inclinations, my inclinations, etc...
That idea is just absolutly crazy.
Its openly limiting ourselfs to impossible brackets.
Then fine, start by telling me what you want out of life? What do you want out of a relationship?
Do you want a child? Because I do.
We both need to have values, principles, morals, loyalty, faithfulness, adaptability and compatibility. Good habits & discipline for a life, but not perfect.
Life can be very difficult, so I need a woman with the skills to handle lifes difficulties. I certainly can.
I'm very generous with my feelings and other issues, attentive, humorous, very romantic, detailed, caring. I will always make sure you are not neglected or feel abandoned. But, you need to do the same. You will always have my attention and arms to hug you and my lips to kiss you.
I'm a happy, very reliable and an optimistic man, that wants to find his girl. A serious humble man looking for a like minded woman. I'm world minded and I have a clear awareness of world affairs. It will be stimulating to listen to your words & what matters to you. We will have great conversation indeed. I can appreciate a glass of good wine & good music along your company.
I'm a good communicator that believes in true special love. But, let me say this, I'm very clear, that we all think we all deserve a good relationship. But, it is not true. That is just a false sense of entitlement that has been propagated by media. A good relationship nowadays, is very far and in between circumstance. A rare indeed of a circumstance. Why? A big part of our problem comes from, believing the media narrative. Including dumb magazine articles, bad places in the internet, bad misleading books, feminists that have weakened masculinity, family, values, morality, principles and the presence of a man. And us with that sense of entitlements. We forget that we all need to earn and forge our places with good deeds, dedication, making good decisions and maturity. So, our believe system is weak at its best. We want happiness when we are not happy our self's. So how can we provide happiness in the first place? Business has planted in our heads that we are not complete and or happy if we don't get this or that. We have allowed this foreign people with loads of unnecessary weight, demands, thoughts, attitudes and things that don't belong there. Therefor making our relationships shorter and shorter and not what they are supposed to be. A long lasting affair like our grandparents had it. We see the failures, but yet we continue in the same direction, philosophy and patterns. My conclusion leads me to a more traditional cohesive and unloaded circus of expectations. Simplicity, good fun, laughs, maturity, dedication, loyalty. Good old fashion values. Because it will be a certified guaranteed failure if we don't. So, like my grandparents, I don't lead with social or money status, because those things can end at any given moment with no warning. But, that does not mean I am lazy or that I don't work hard every single day towards a future. And a relationship should not end because of those things gone. It is the moment when you need in your partner a strong woman and or man the most, to continue and support each other. We have to examine what's really important in a relationship. Actually, you get to know people during difficult times rather than the good times. And this goes both ways. Let me explain. And this is one example of the many that life can throw at you. If a medical situation would affected you (me), I will not run. I would be with you and next to you. We age, we wrinkle, hair gets white, skin starts to obey gravity. Things that should be looked as cute and new, rather than a negative thing. ( I'm not saying lets abandon taking care of ourselfs through good eating and exercise. Its rather a lets get realistic here. We think nowadays as if we are not getting older. But, think! And think hard!
We are at a pace we are not aware of. Putting off and putting off a relationship until the blue prince shows up in his white horse. Last week is not coming back, so it is last month and last year. You are a year older, but you still hold dear to your long leaved list of rules and expectations and fantasy given by your masters. The ones that want you to spend all your resources and your future man on them. Either we educate our self's to this realities and honor this very human things enjoying our true self's or accept that we all, are so shallow we can't put a cent of direction in our lifes without girlfriends, t.v., radio, magazines, soap operas, movies telling us how we are going to be happy. And all the money in the world is not going to solve anything. For me life will continue as Its natural direction and law. I have given it a good deep thought about it. I want to age with a good woman, grow old together regardless of our physical natural changes. Next to each other walking with a cane or seating in two chairs next to each other. Love has to be our most important base with our intellectual, soul and physical connection. That is what I consider important. To love each other regardless of the storm we are facing.
You will feel protected, cared and loved. I want to have nonnegotiable respect and admiration both ways. I'm an authentic legitimate man that enjoys the simple things in life like holding your hand, kissing you, long conversations, long walks, planning our future, listening to good quality music, looking at your eyes and feel intoxicated with your love and intensity like the first time. Waking up next to each other cuddling, admiring you every morning, having some coffee, kissing and touching your hair. You whispering sexy mischief in my ear. We are Bonnie and Clyde, partners in crime. I enjoy women that are happy in their hearts, that don't lead with materialistic interests, but rather have great imagination and a wild creative mind set. Women that find meaning in other values. Humble & God loving. This are the dominant characteristics in my personality: I love music, salsa dance, slow dance under the moon and stars or any other dance). I'm genuine, legitimate, noble, good heart, appreciate someone with a clear mind with views and feelings about life and reciprocal on what I have in my personality. But, remember one important thing. Very important, I'm human and I make mistakes. I don't enjoy people that don't allow an apologetic process, my owning up or your owning up. They rather be punitive and leave altogether, in my opinion they have unfinished business from the past & punish the present with their past. That old hurt acts up in the moment, nobody can lead and build a life that way. Neither without owning up to your mistakes or letting others do the same.
I'm looking for a woman that aligns with what I say here. Somebody that likes what I say here. Thank you for visiting me, it seems as if you know me already! No, you don't. Words can never match an experience and chapters written as we go. It will be all new and unpredictable. Let's create memorable moments together. Are you ready? Then drop me a note with your serious intent to get to know each other. And have some good questions for me. Thank you.
About My Match
I'm here because I want to meet you girl. Please, show me from the beginning that you have both your feet on the ground. And that you have a head over your shoulders. Show me that you dont have a conglomerate of limitations. Show me that you truly are a "G I V E R", that you are real. I need pictutes of you. Show me your strong confidence that you are a force of love, generosity & feminity. Show me you truly want a relationship that will last a lifetime. Show me with confidence you have a reliable believe system that came from your parents & your religion. (If you pray, read the bible, go to church & Catholic traditional, conservative woman much better) Show me confidence that you bring substance to our relationship. You want a lifetime relationship, not what they call today durable. Thats not good enough for you. You think outside the box. You don't buy into modern ideas & schemes of quick fixes from self help fu fu books . You know that old fashioned values work because they are time tested and therefor a strong foundation. You are not a quitter. You want to fight life next to me. You have an attitude of let's do it together, of you and I against the world. You are very mature in your thinking, your emotions and the way you see life. You complete me, you make me happy and I really mean it, you make me happy. You are very realistic and your presence is beauty of the most important kind. You are the piece of the puzzle I need to find . You are very feminine and you enjoy it. You are happy in your heart, and your heart has a lot of genuine & legitimate love to give. Because you believe in "true love". True love is not graded in numbers like in tall, weight and age. We graded it in values and principles the same way I do. Your generosity flatters me and leaves me new every time. Also, you know how to communicate with me. You are very loving, nurturing, you have deep empathy. You are not into mind games. So you appreciate a legitimate man with authenticity & respect. You are very serious about building a relationship and finding the man of your life. Here, the building word is very appropriate. Because, you and I believe that we have to work at building it. Its a joint effort. Last but never the least, you are very truly smart on your female inner core. You have eyes, ears, intuition, brains, softness that goes miles in distance to look after us the same way I do. You take ownership in this, its ours and ours only. And we protect each other with our lives. So lets write this beautiful story together. You have my unconditional love, we value each other.
(This part forward is only for cons and scammers) Now, I respect all people, so please respect my time if you are one of those disguised as interested in me. Please go away. You are not going to get anything out of me. I'm not weak minded and impossible to bend. Ok! Thank you.
- English (fluent), Portuguese (fluent), Spanish (fluent)
- Associates Degree
- I have no kids
- Not sure
Personality and Interests
Adventurous/Wild/Spontaneous, Artistic, Calm, Communicative, Conservative/Clean Cut, Earthy, Easygoing/Flexible/Open-Minded, Eccentric, Elegant, Flirtatious/Playful, Friendly/Kind, Gentle, High Energy, Humorous/Witty, Intellectual/Smart, Low Maintenance, Optimistic, Outgoing, Persistent, Practical, Quiet/Shy, Romantic, Romantic, Self Confident, Serious/Responsible, Simple, Sociable, Sophisticated/Worldly, Spiritual, Talkative, Unconventional/Free-Spirited
Basketball, Biking, Bowling, Dancing, Hiking/Walking, Horseback Riding, Ice Skating, Inline Skating/Roller Skating, Martial Arts, Snorkeling/Scuba Diving, Snow Skiing, Swimming/Diving, Volleyball, Weightlifting
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Meetings/Friends, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing sports, Shopping/Antiques, Theater, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
American, Barbecue, Cajun/Southern, California-Fusion, Caribbean/Cuban, Chinese/Dim Sum, Eastern-European, French, German, Greek, Indian, Italian, Japanese/Sushi, Jewish/Kosher, Mediterranean, Mexican, Middle Eastern, Russian, Seafood, Soul Food, South American, Spanish, Thai, Vegan, Vegetarian/Organic
Acoustic, Alternative, Big Band/Swing, Blues, Classic Rock n' Roll, Classical, Country, Dance/Electronica, Disco, Easy Listening, Hard Rock & Metal, Instrumental, Jazz, Latin, Modern Rock n' Roll, New Age, Oldies, Opera, Pop, Punk, Reggae, Rock, Soul/R&B, Soundtracks, World Music/Ethnic
Classics, Magazines, Newspapers, Non-Fiction, Poetry, Trade Journals